Psychoanalysis and Love

(scan by Rev. Byrd | Cited Edition)

Subtitle: A Scientist’s Candid Conclusions About Infidelity, Free Love, Ego and Sex, Birth Control, and other Frequently Misunderstood Phases of Normal Living

Author: Andre Tridon

Edition Cited in The Compleat Witch
 
Publisher: Permabooks
City: New York
Year: 1949
Pages: 239
Binding: Hardback
Size: 4.25″ x 6.5″
 
 
Table of Contents

 
I  THE HEAD AND THE HEART . . . 1
Love is independent from the will.  Victims of Venus.  Love and affection.  Erotropism.  What is the heart?  A dead heart can be made to beat.  The heart is a respectable organ.  The anthithesis [sic] head-heart.  Nerve memory.


II  THE CHOICE OF A MATE . . . 7
What we see in our mate.  The meaning of choice.  The donkey’s dilemma.  Chance in the discard.  The dog’s choice.  The behavior of copepods.


III  THE QUEST OF THE FETISH . . . 12
The hair fetishist.  Everybody a fetishist.  Most common fetishes.  The breast and the bottle.  Feminine fetishes.  Physiological necessities.  Foot and shoe fetishism.  Non-physical fetishes.  Symbolical fetishes.  Antifetishes.  Attraction or obsession?


IV  THE FAMILY ROMANCE AND THE FAMILY FEUD . . . 20
The Oedipus complex.  The Freudian view.  Jung’s interpretation.  Adler.  Pseudo-incest. The neurotic life plan.  Imitation.  The glands.  Identification mania.  Early conflicts.  Death wishes.  Our preferences.  Craig’s birds.


V  INCEST . . . 29
The incest fear.  Incest in ancient times.  Inbreeding.  The primal horde.  repressed incestuous feelings.  Blood relations.


VI  THE PHYSIOLOGY OF LOVE . . . 35
The organism a unit.  Love’s stimulation.  The successful lover.  The unsuccessful lover.  Calf love.


VII  THE SENSES OF LOVE . . . 40
Sight.  Auditory sensations.  Smell.  The sense of taste.  Touch.  Holding hands.  The kiss.  The birth of the kiss.  Kisses and electricity.


VIII  EGO AND SEX . . . 46
Neurotic complications.  Self-love.  Ego in sex guise.  Fatherhood.  War prisoners.  Neurotic motherliness.  When ego and sex do not conflict.


IX  HATRED AND LOVE . . . 52
A worried wife.  The test of love.  Sour grapes.  Brothers and sisters.  A negro hater.  Reformers.  The syphilophobiac.  Deluded martyrs.


X  PLURAL LOVE AND INFIDELITY . . . 59
Polyandry.  Infidelity.  When love dies.  Iwan Bloch’s and Hirth’s theories.  Bored wives.  Getting even.  Varietists and Don Juans.  The ultra-feminine.  Messalina.


XI  IS FREE LOVE POSSIBLE? . . . 68
Man, the dissatisfied.  The next step.  Blissful blindness.  What of the child?  Disharmony between the parents.  The institution child.  Free love plus birth control.


XII  PROSTITUTION . . . 74
Economic factors.  Lombroso’s theory.  Sensuality.  Father fixation.  Prostitution a neurosis.  The pimp.  Prevention.  Prostitution has no redeeming grace.


XIII  VIRGINITY . . . 80
What men experienced in love want.  Ethical prostitution.  The fear of woman.  The will-to-be-the-first.  Telegony.  Goldschmidt’s explanations.


XIV  MODESTY, NORMAL AND ABNORMAL . . . 87
In Turkey.  On the modern stage.  Normal modesty.  Suggestive draperies.  Excessive modesty.  Immodest modesty.  Fear of love.  The masculine protest.  Lack of modesty.


XV  JEALOUSY . . . 95
Forel’s rules for husbands.  Very few men and women admit their jealousy.  Jealousy and impotence.  Childish behavior.  Husbands and lovers.  Cruelty.  Making people jealous.


XVI  INSANE JEALOUSY . . . 105
Delusional jealousy.  Homosexualism and jealousy.  A jealous wife.  A case of projection.  Masked sadism.


XVII  HOMOSEXUALISM; ITS GENESIS . . . 111
Male lovers in Greece.  Women were harem slaves.  The tide turns.  Theories.  The third sex.  Transvestites.  Are transvestites homosexual?  Metatropism.  Steinach’s experiments. Perverse birds.  Freud denies the third sex.  Active and passive types.  The homosexual neurosis.  A safety device.  Above and below.  A way out.  The escape from biological duties.


XVIII  HOMOSEXUALISM, A NEUROTIC SYMPTOM . . . 125
A denial of life.  Homosexualism is negative love.  The love letters of famous homosexuals.  Deeds of violence.  A homosexual tragedy.  Women more homosexual than men.  Boastful homosexuals.  The Nietzsche-Wagner feud.  Shall perverse love be recognized?  Man’s emancipation from women.  Is homosexualism necessary?


XIX  CRUELTY AND LOVE.  SADISM . . . 134
Algolagnists.  The Marquis de Sade’s biography.  What Bonaparte thought of him.  Glandular drunkenness.  Atavism.  Primitive religions.  Primitive races and sex violence.  Animal love fights.  The sadistic mob.  Is the male more cruel?


XX  LOVE THAT CRAVES SUFFERING.  MASOCHISM . . . 143
Sacher Masoch’s biography.  Love of the whip.  The masochist is like a tired horse.  Shoe fetishism.  Craving for humiliation.  Masochistic fancies.  Are women masochistic?  Women who enjoy a beating.  A Freudian suggestion.


XXI  WHAT LOVE OWES TO SADISTS AND MASOCHISTS . . . 151
Sadistic and masochistic lovers and their fascination.  The vamp.  Those who are too normal to be interesting or romantic.


XXII  LOVE AMONG THE ARTISTS . . . 154
Dissatisfaction.  The male artist.  The female artist.  The woman who accomplishes things.  Flattery.


XXIII  THE PERSONALITY BEHIND THE FETISHES.  GLANDS . . . 159
The parent-child relationship.  Modern endocrinologists ignorant of psychology.  Reciprocal influence of glands and behavior.  The pituitary gland.  The thyroid.  The adrenals.  The gonads.


XXIV  GLANDULAR PERSONALITIES . . . 166
The dark skinned type.  The tall type.  The lean type.  The obese type.  The slender type.  Environment.  Comfort and behavior.  What teeth indicate.  Matrimonial engineers.   


XXV  LOVE AND MOTHER LOVE . . . 172
Sex cravings and motherhood cravings.  Pregnancy means health.  Fear of pregnancy.  When mother love is lacking.  Frigid wives.  Mother and father love.  Mothers adore their sons.  Fathers partial to daughters.  The modern girl and her mother.


XXVI  SHOULD WINTER MATE WITH SPRING? . . . 179
Two disinterested brides.  The case of Wagner.  A parent fixation.  Physical incompatibility.  The plight of two neurotics.  What will people say?  Having her fixation-fling.  Physical results.  The fate of the younger male.  King David.


XXVII  NEGATIVE LOVE . . . 187
A “clean” life.  Utterances and conduct.  Oracles and prophecies.  Can we save our vital force.  Sublimation.  The sexless.  Ideal love.  Protective measures.  Lover of the absolute.  A troublesome patient.  Higher aspirations.


XXVIII  THE NEW WOMAN AND LOVE . . . 195
George Bernard Shaw’s view.  The rebellion against nature.  Woman in commercial life.  Was it a sacrifice?  The pursuit.  The passing of respective prostitution.  The abettor of ethical sins.  Health verses sickness.  The passing of the flirt and of the doll.  Modesty, old and new.  The unadapted woman.  The proud husband.


XXIX  BIRTH CONTROL . . . 206
What we expect of the modern woman.  The only solution.  The human milch cow.  The nightmare of abortion.  The plight of the neurotic woman.  The child of the neurotic woman.  Birth control and indulgence.  A great love is a holy thing.  The passing of the double standard.


XXX  THE PASSING OF HUSBAND WORSHIP . . . 215
Is man’s vitality declining?  Undue pessimism.  The wise husband.  Is the male indispensable?  Loeb’s experiments.  Twins to order.  The mother is the race.  Matriarchal communities.  Modern woman is conceited.  The terrors of the climacteric.  Masculine man is in no danger of passing away.


XXXI PERFECT MATRIMONIAL ADJUSTMENTS . . . 224
Marriage a compromise.  Attractiveness an asset.  Forty and hideous.  Athletic movie idols.  The foe of married happiness.  Friendship may survive love.  Separate vacations for the married.  The play function of love.  Psychoanalysis to the rescue.  Wounded egotism.  Democracy in the home.
 
 
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(scan by Rev. Byrd | Cited Edition)
 
Title: Psychoanalysis and Love
Subtitle: A Scientist’s Candid Conclusions About Infidelity, Free Love, Ego and Sex, Birth Control, and other Frequently Misunderstood Phases of Normal Living
Year:  1949
Publisher:  Permabooks; New York
Pages:  239
Binding: Hardcover
Size:  4.25″ x 6.5″
Cover Price:  .35¢
ISBN:
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The Olive Skinned Dark Haired Type, and the freckled, red haired are very much alike.  Both have a low forehead, hair is plentiful all over the body, thick and coarse.  Their canines are long and sharp.


Men and women of that type are good fighters, more easily angered than scared; they are generally successful, with a tendency to slave-driving.  In the face of great difficulties, of painful disappointment, however, they are prone to turn embittered and cranky.


People of this type who show large birth marks are likely to be unbalanced and irritable.  They may at times give the impression of being weak and lazy, altho their minds my be extremely active.”


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